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18Nov/090

Our Chicago Vacation

userinfohelloheather's cousin Peter was married (almost) a month ago in Chicago. We decided that, because we did not have an "away" vacation this summer, we would make one out of the wedding weekend. I took the Friday off and we zipped downtown to The Palmer House Hotel.

Nate sitting on a couch at the Palmer House Hotel in Chicago
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Friday afternoon we headed over to Millennium Park. It was misting out but we still had a good time. We saw Cloud Gate, the fountains, the temporary Burnham Pavilions, and climbed the new bridge to the Modern wing of the Art Institute.

at millennium park
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Friday evening, we were invited to the reversal dinner so we all hopped on the Red Line and headed north. Nate was treated to the quintessential public transit experience: a very loud and annoying (and young) Baptist preacher telling us we are all evil in everything we do and we're going to hell. Nate took it all in stride and eventually ignored the guy. On the way back to the hotel we were treated to slightly inebriated college students. The circle was complete.

Saturday morning we took a cab over to the Field Museum. Nate really enjoyed Sue the T-Rex and some of the other skeletons he saw, but for the most part the museum was over his head. We ran from room to room (he was setting the pace) and eventually decided we were all done for the day. The cab ride back was fun, and the driver quite taken by Nate. When we stopped at the light in front of the Art Institute, the driver asked Nate: "Do you see those lions? Are you afraid of those lions?" to which he answered very matter-of-factly: "No, they're just statues." The cab driver had a really good laugh.

South Shore Cultural Center
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The wedding and reception were held at the South Shore Cultural Center, a beautiful location right on the lake. Nate did a lot of running around with a boy a little bit younger than him and before long we were all exhausted. Gone are the days of being one of the last couples to leave the reception. :)

Sunday morning we decided to head out to breakfast rather than eat in the hotel. Nate was a little restless so I took him for a walk while we waited for our food. It was a cool morning and the streets and sidewalks were empty. We ended up in Federal Plaza which contains the sculpture Flamingo by Alexander Calder.

Nate standing inside the sculpture in Federal Plaza in Chicago
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Following breakfast we packed up the car and drove north to Wrigleyville to attend church with my in-laws good friends. By that time the clouds had broken and we ended up with a beautiful fall day. Nate slept soundly during the drive home.

15Sep/091

11 years

If for no other reason than for me to try and gain momentum on posting to the blog, I present:

11 years and 111111.1 miles

I managed to catch my odometer rolling over 111111.1 miles. My Chevy Cavalier has been with me since Easter before graduating college. I put quite a few miles on it those first couple years (trips out east, down to the Carolina's, back and forth between Indy and Crystal Lake) but a majority of its life has been quite mundane: It travels between home and the train station and around town.

3Jan/090

saying cheese

Packing up after the end of our Cousin's Camp-out weekend in July.

Nate saying "cheese!" in the most earnest way!

nate saying cheese after the cousin's camp-out in 2008
photo by helloheather

I know, I should be fixing cetan.org and posting all these wonderful (to me) archive finds there, but I'm lazy and this works...

3Jan/090

july fourth

Above the 4th of July parade in Pittsville, WI

above
30Nov/080

Nate’s first train ride

On Thursday we joined other family members for a train ride. The rest of the family was heading downtown Chicago for shopping and museum going, while we were only traveling as far as Des Plaines.

It was Nate's first and he really enjoyed it. He kept asking "Where's Comductor?" (which was how he pronounced it) and would say hello whenever a conductor would walk by.

Stopping at Des Plaines turned out to be a pretty good decision because the 45 minute ride was about Nate's limit for being on the train. We exited and made our way to the public library for a little bit of reading before heading to The ChooChoo for an early lunch. We had hoped to get the 11:04 back home but missed it by a few minutes. So, we headed back to the library for some puzzles and watching fish in the big fish tank until we could catch the 12:04.

Heather Nate and Rob on the Metra train Nov 29, 2008

Thanks to fellow Metra travelers on the return leg (who's names we never got) for snapping this photo.

27Oct/080

yesterday’s leaf photo

Scott asked about the photo in yesterday's blog post so I thought I'd provide a larger view of the subject. It is a panel on a piece of playground equipment at a park in Indianapolis.

a piece of playground equipment - shapes of leaves - at a park in indianapolis indiana

It's not a particularly good photo and still doesn't show a ton of context, but it's a little less mysterious than the first image. :)

26Oct/082

She can be all four seasons in just one day

When we left Indy, it was partly cloudy, breezy, and a wonderful 61 deg F. By the time we got to Itasca (at 290 and 355) it was 38 deg F and the falling hail was almost completely horizontal.

a leaf on playground equipment in Indianapolis IN
2Oct/070

Ruby Beach, WA – 2003


Some day I'll walk on this beach again.

Ruby Beach - WA

impressions

8Sep/070

Cornfest – Darien WI

We met Serena and Charlotte in Darien WI for a Cornfest.

http://www.dariencornfest.com/

Corn Fest - Darien WI - Nathan (14 mo) and Charlotte (20? mo)

It was a pleasant afternoon, though a bit on the warm side. Nate and userinfohelloheather went down one of those carnival slides where you sit on a piece of burlap. He seemed to be unsure of what exactly happened after reaching the bottom.

Later he spent some time flirting with Charlotte. It was cute.

18Aug/070

Denver – 2007

Nine adults and six children (under four years-old) in one house for five days may seem like a crazy thing to do, but it was really quite nice. At the end of it, I was left with a great feeling of joy and also loss. Re-connecting with people (some of whom we've not seen in years) is an experience I treasure and one I'm loathed to give up.

It's true that, for some of the trip, I was rather stressed out. I'm still (even a year on) trying to work through the over-protective fears and feelings I have with Nathan. Worries abound, leaving my head and emotions spinning. Unfortunately it doesn't always stay inside. It's something I struggle with.

But less navel gazing and more vacation discussion...

Nathan had a great time. He had explosive behavioral growth in the span of these five days. By the end of the trip he was 1) no longer walking as if he were Frankenstein's Monster. 2) able to climb onto and (and fall off of) push-toy cars and 3) able to climb up and sit down at a kids plastic play table. He also started using new sounds and in some cases, two syllable "words." He seems to mimic sounds a bit more too.

IMG_1640-lightroom

We spent some time at a neighborhood pool on Saturday. This pool featured a waterslide that pushed a fair amount of water around. Enough so that you could swim against the current near the slide and not make any progress forward. So, with Nathan in arms, I stood in the middle of the current watching kids (and adults) go down the slide. He /loved/ this. He was so calm in my arms, and simply sat enjoying the feeling of the rushing water. At one point I thought he was going to go to sleep, he was so relaxed.

He was pretty much a joy at the airports. He loved being pushed around in his stroller because he could see all the people and point and make his "heeeeyyy!" noise at them. And they, in turn, would smile and sometimes stop and say hello to him. At DEN a ~10 year-old girl with a stuffed toy (river otter) befriended him and became a de facto babysitter for a time. She would let him grab the stuffed animal and would follow him around, playing peek-a-boo around the support column near our seats.

22Jun/070

Visited States meme – 2007 edition

The "which states have you visited" meme is alive again (again) and so, as I've not done any traveling to new areas since the last time I posted the map, I'll simply link to my previous post :)

and here it is

1Jun/071

Memorial Day Weekend 2007

This past weekend was a lot of fun. It started off a little shaky with us needing to drive Nathan around at 4:00 AM on Saturday trying to get him to sleep (thus preventing us from leaving early Saturday morning). He had been up every 45 minutes to an hour since midnight and the lack of sleep pushed us back to a noon departure. But Saturday was very rainy, traffic was light, and Nathan slept much of the way to the lake house.

The weather only improved during the weekend but not really enough to go swimming. We went out on the boat a couple times though and Nathan seemed worried. He didn't really like the life vest and being in the sun so much, so the trips were short. But that's not to say he didn't have any fun out there. He liked the wind blowing in his face and liked looking at people as we went by. Serena and Charlotte came up for a visit on Sunday which was fun. Charlotte is getting so big, it's hard to believe.



On Monday we went to the Wisconsin Rapids Municipal Zoo. It's a small thing with only a few animals, but Nathan was very interested. We first stopped at the petting zoom where he actually became a bit scared at the noises the baby pigs were making. As a result he was a bit unsure of the lambs, the calf, and the goat and her kid. (He would actually clutch very close to me when we'd go near one of the pens.) But he was very interested in the hen and her chicks and all the ducklings. For the rest of the zoo Nathan was happy and very engaged. When we visited the pen with alpaca, donkey, turkeys, and two very large goats, he was most happy. He kept saying "Hey!" or "Eh!!" to the goats (which were laying down near the fence). When the tom turkey would make his call and stomp his feet, Nathan would stare in fascination. Surprisingly, he was also rather interested in the large tortoise sunning itself near the door in another pen.

As the sun was setting, I decided that, even though it was too cool for swimming in the lake, Nathan should at least experience the water a bit, so I rolled up my pants legs and sat down on the steps leading into the water. Nathan loved dangling his feat in the water, kicking and splashing, and wanted to jump in.

Tuesday, on the drive back, we stopped off in Milton to see Aaron and Charlotte where we had lunch at a local diner.

All in all it was a nice respite.

27Jun/060

Catching Up – Wisconsin Weekend Photos

The photos have been up for a while, but never captioned.

http://www.bernhard.us/photos/port-washington-06

Lighthouse in Port Washington WI
Lighthouse - Port Washington, WI - 2006

2Jun/063

MAM

The Milwaukee Art Museum, designed by Santiago Calatrava is an amazing space. The intersection of curves and straight lines, the light, the starkness of the white and the cool of the blue sky - it works very very well together.

Milwaukee Art Museum - high-key
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The above shot was deliberately over-exposed to achieve a "high-key" effect. I did this with the desire to focus, less on the contrast that results in the noon-day sun streaming through the windows, and more on the shape and form of the building. The people put some perspective on the size of the space and their colored shirts really enhance the high-key nature of the image.

31May/060

Wisconsin Getaway

As userinfohelloheather recently pointed out, we made our way into Wisconsin for a relaxing weekend. We stayed at a B&B in Port Washington, WI only a few blocks from Lake Michigan. On Sunday we visited the Milwaukee Art Museum

Milwaukee Art Museum
© Heather Bernhard
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Overall it was a fun weekend. Port Washington is a nice little town along the lake. Thanks to a recommendation from userinfoemilissima we had a great dinner at The Pasta Shoppe. Unfortunately we didn't get to the coffee shop she also recommended, but that leaves something for our next visit.

We also spent time on Saturday in Cedarburg, WI (just south of Port Washington) which reminded both of us of Galena, IL. They were having some big festival on Sunday which we avoided because of the expected crowds and very hot and humid temps.

Monday found us in Elgin at my parents for a Memorial Day/Baby Shower. And speaking of showers, there were some pretty intense ones in the afternoon thanks to all that unstable air.

I'm starting to upload photos to our Gallery from this weekend. Aside from the museum, we also spent time walking out to the end of the breakwall to see the Port Washington lighthouse and I did some longer exposure evening/dusk photography along the lakefront on Sunday evening.